Showing posts with label prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label prayer. Show all posts

7 February 2012

Happy New Prayer!

It’s the second day of February and this morning I posed this e-question to one friend (who I haven’t spoken to for a while but wanted to catch up with), ‘is it too late to wish you a Happy New Year?’


Well, is it?


I guess not and of course, it doesn’t really matter whether it’s too late or not. The important thing is to know whether the happiness for the new year that we wished upon those to whom we offered the sentiment, is borne out, or not.


February for them, as for us, will be different to January, and September to June. Different daily and monthly challenges determine how happy our respective years will be.


January is a month of cold weather, dark evenings, credit card bills, school examinations. February, the same.


So who knows what this year has already brought for some – or what the rest of it - will bring for others? Which raises the question, is it futile to wish someone a Happy New year, to hope for it even?


Just prior to Christmas, the local paper did a short interview with me about mission and the work I am involved with. I said something that I often say to people, along the lines of ‘when you start praying for people, you start loving them.’ When the article was written, the word ‘praying’ was replaced with the word ‘hoping’ which for me, missed the point completely, though I understood why it was done.


Reminds me of that old Dusty Springfield song, ‘wishing, and hoping, and thinking and praying…’


What’s the difference between the words?


Well, for Christians there is a difference, of course, between merely wishing for something that has no real impact, and praying for its success.


The great thing about prayer is that we can cause an effect, we can make an impact in the lives of those to whom we may have (maybe casually) wished a Happy New year to at the turn of the year.


We can bring about the intended outcome to the greeting if we believe in prayer.

We can’t foresee what is to come in the lives of those we pray for, but God can, and He hears our prayers.


But how intentional are we of turning our wishing and hoping into thinking and praying?


One thing I did over two days in the New Year period was to pray through my mobile phone contacts. That’s a good way of cross sectioning our contacts, friends, work colleagues, neighbours and so on. I prayed for some really random people and really enjoyed it.


I am expectant of God’s impact on their lives this year because I know He is faithful.


Intentional prayer. Let’s get on to it.

21 January 2012

Fill in the space

When God created humankind, I'm not convinced that he ever intended for communication between us to be any harder than, 'Hey Dad, how business?' 'What's on your mind, Dad?' 'Tell me about you, Dad.' 'I was thinking the other day, Dad...'

What d'you reckon?

Personally, I find my default setting when thinking of prayer is to panic, look back over the last week of my life, decide that it would be probably more agreeable for the Almighty to not hear from me given the state of my soul, and make a personal commitment to self to 'sort my life out' before Sunday church so that I can engage with 'the worship', whatever that means; my prayer life is reduced to firing off quick one-liners of generic christianese that don't really help anyone.

Feels a bit foolish to me.

Actually, I'd suggest that the Father is waiting, longing, even desperate, for us to drop such ridiculous methods and start behaving a little bit more like His CHILDREN.

I spend an awful lot of my time complaining to God, and frankly to anyone who will listen, that I'm not quite where I want to be 'with God.' The thing is, that's a completely human and downright idiotic way to go about this Christian business.

As I understand it, the Father gave everything, including His own son, so that I could be in relationship with him - that's filial, Father-son, closer than anything else sort of relationship by the way - so if I'm finding any space between us, you can bet large sums of money that it's because I made the space.

If I don't feel I'm 'doing well with God', best to start by telling Him that; it's called confession.

The space needs to be filled from our end.

May I suggest that it might look a bit like this:

'Hey Dad, how business?'
'What's on your mind, Dad?'
'Tell me about you, Dad.'
'I was thinking the other day, Dad...'
'Dad, I'm really struggling with this...'
'I love you, Father.'

Just a thought.